I have a strange relationship with things hanging over my head–they actually crash into my brain. I have to get some paperwork done by tomorrow night, or I won’t gather data this spring. That’s scary. I guess that it has come to that. It doesn’t matter much, because I have to get those things done. I have to stay home from the day job today because I have to move money and write a big check too.
My joints are really sore. I think that I’ll do a beer fast until Saturday night this week to give my body a break, but I know that I like it better than ibuprofen. That’s what Saturday night and a cab are for–I get really nervous after I have had 3 when I think about malpractice insurance. I’m hoping to run for 35-minutes on Thursday so I can get a good time on Saturday night. I don’t know what a good time is though, but I’d like it to be under 40-minutes. It will probably depend if it rains that night or not. I’m assuming that running in rain at night is not a treat. I just don’t know, because I have never run before now.
Yesterday not only did we run into the wind, but we also were freezing. It was one of those days due to inclement conditions, you’d have been best off running in ski pants and a hat with flaps, but then the trade-off is that you would sweat buckets. My son was in basketball shorts, REI under armor, a hoody with the hood on his head, a raincoat, and I pulled his shirt over his head that he got from the event as well. He did sweat, but his nose also ran like crazy. I was proud of him for finishing. He jogged a little bit, and sprinted at least 6 times, but mostly walked at my pace, which is an extremely fast pace.
Now, I’m thinking about money (agonizing), my data and writing, that I don’t want to have clients on Tuesday (So, I don’t think I will schedule any), and my long days on Wednesday and Thursday. I’m so tired of working a minimum of 50-hours every week. I also need a distraction. I don’t contact my ex at all, but I do think about her. Most likely, much of the reason for the latter is because I don’t have a dark horse in the running.
I read through my entire journal (pen not blog) before I tried to sleep. I talk about trying to sleep because I woke at eleven thirty and then after one, so I had to leave my bed. I’m sore and achey, but mostly I’m really just stressed. Anyway, in my journal, I noted that everything that I voiced and put out as intention came through. Even though I never wrote, “I want a barista,” I wrote ad nauseum about being mellow and having no temper. Well, Peter Pan wasn’t passionate about much other than sex in the middle of the night and some works of fiction, and certainly would not ever lose her temper. Wow. Careful seems good.
I like sexy. I like smart. I like fit. I prefer light eyes and used to only like tall. (The latter was removed from my notion of “type” given my little ex.) I like honest, open, and authentic. Those three things involve more quiet confidence. You just are.
Shane and my ex have those elements that are referred to in the vernacular as “The Shit Show.” However, especially with Shane, when you walked into a crowded trendy spot with her, both men and women would stare. Probably at her swaggering 5’11” self with the power haircut, flashing smile and sparkling green eyes, but she also had that Steve McQueen thing going. That: “I’m here and I could give two shits if you don’t like it.” My ex can get loud and raucous, and relentlessly teases everyone at times–including wait staff–but she has that sex appeal thing and incredible eyes with a good smile.
I’m shifting in desire to more genuine. Funny is really good, but sense of humor is even better. Shane is not funny at all, but is much sweeter than my ex is. She can be really genuine too, but doesn’t often remember those moments given her longterm abuse of alcohol. I’d trade funny for appreciating laughter. I’d also prefer a girl who does not take herself too seriously. Life is not that serious, and there are things that happen that are so difficult that when you can’t just be, laugh, or simply soften, you’re really in for it. I guess that it. I do like attractiveness and intelligence, but I’m really seeking: mostly gentle.