So, I took my son to my folks’ house during the lunch hour and met her for a impromptu date yesterday. I fed her meter–actually I parked her car too, as she had trouble getting in the spot–bought her a couple beers and pizza and we went home to have sex. It was nice, as was the conversation that we had, but then she suddenly looked at her watch and said, “I told [my roommate] that I’d be home at four, so I have to go, as much as I’d like to stay here and have sex all afternoon.”
I told her that she has to get home to someone who doesn’t give her what I do–which I had said in a smart aleck, in jest sort of way. Then she said, “I have been in a relationship like that where I was told, ‘Oh, you can be an hour late. You can be half-an-hour late,’ and I’m not going to do that anymore. I like to tell whoever I’m meeting what time I will be home and do it.” I said, “OK.” I got up and got dressed. That was not what I was saying, and I was joking, but I was pissed at the abruptness of her transition, and because she is so attached to her roommate I was really aggravated. Also, I took my son elsewhere to do something nice for her, which I paid for, orchestrated, and was not implying that she needed to be late. I was joking around.
As I was getting ready to leave my bedroom, I was seething, because she was comparing me to some girl who she was with for over three-years, and is probably 10 or more years my junior. Then, the kicker was that it was 50-minutes until it was 4! She lives 15-20 minutes away from me. I told her the time and she said, “Oh, I looked at my watch wrong!” I was infuriated. Last night when we talked for a two-hours she said that I blew her looking at her watch incorrectly way out of proportion. I told her that it seemed convenient, and she was insulted that I thought that she’d lie. I told her that with the fervor that she started leaving, it seemed so dissimilar to the way in which she rolls. I figured that she was going to go out, do whatever around girls, and wanted to get the hell out.
So, she is now aggravated at me for thinking that the watch was an excuse and that I want her to be with me all the time. The latter is completely bizarre. I have to admit that she triggered my ex-partner stuff. Recall that my ex-partner was not exclusive with me, always slept with another girl, and “fell in love with me” when she had moved to the Southeast. I do not want another fuck buddy again, and do want to be of value. I guess that if you have as many relationships as I have had that you have what Missy Higgins sings about which is scars.