It’s not hard for me. Naturally good to other people is something that I get a lot of joy from because I like to see people laughing and enjoying. I think that I’ll have a dinner party and invite three couples. I can’t think of any way to meet good girls except through people. It’s kinda like a sprawling connection thing too, because when you have folks over at your house, you can create new energy, and when they are happy couples, it’s actually good energy. That’s what I think has been eluding me tbh too.
Because I think that in my last two relationships, I was with girls who really aren’t in good moods most of the time. One is just dark and has not dealt with her trauma, and the other one is so obsessed with appearance (being in sales) that she feigns happiness all the time and outside of her son, there is no one good enough for her to be happy around. Sounds like the latter behavior is masking some stuff, but I don’t need to dwell there because we are not together, and will won’t be in the future.
I’m going to cultivate energy that is not only positive, but is full of love. I’d rather be around happy people. I’d rather find a happy girl or at least one who is willing to own emotion rather than run from it or allow it to seep out in a displaced fashion. The same anthropologist’s talk who I referenced earlier in the week said that we are not designed to be happy. I do think that we have ranges of emotions, but I’d rather be positive with things or at least moving forward.