There is something so scary when a woman who you enjoy talking to, and have lots of things in common with, tells you all about her horrible relationship with her partner. It gets more terrible when you realize that the conversation chemistry that you’ve always known that you’ve had is real chemistry too. Dammit.
Why do you marry when you don’t have passion? Why do you raise kids with a woman who is dissimilar to you? I don’t understand. I’m holding out for someone who is a companion, but sometimes, even a few years down the road, with enough laughter and novelty, I just want to, and make a plan to later after kids are sleep, to tear off her clothes.
She was also talking about how beautiful my son is. I told her that I really appreciated her saying that. She said, “Sometimes, I just keep staring at him. He is gorgeous.” I thanked her again, and then she said, “Well, ______ , he looks exactly like you.” Had to look away on that one.
Seems like I am overly adept at eliminating contact with people. When did I just start putting out the “I am your rebound girl,” vibe? That’s not me. I want a girl to want to be with me, not want to leave her girl or cheat. That’s sucky. After I walk my dog with my friend, I am going to go out. I need to meet some girls to hike and bike with who are not in a relationship.
I just want to make some new connections. Exciting companionship opportunities must be around the corner for me. There is an energy shifting, and I’m open to seeing what it means.