I had hot sex last night and this morning with a friend of mine. She and I have known each other very vaguely, but we have been hanging out a ton since mid-June. We went out and when the night waned on, I realized that I was going to sleep with her. She is also vaguely in love with me, which made it flattering. She is very smart too, so when we talked about our fate and a one-time thing, it was obvious to me that is just want she wanted as well. It was nice, and it was very nice to forget about my ex for many hours.
The only thing is that she is ready to date, and I can date every other weekend. Given that she does not have kids of her own, that is what we could do. I told her what we both already knew… We are at different stages of life, that I would not bring my son around our dating, and that she is worth way, way more than a rebound thing. She deserves the whole package. I need to heal up completely anyway.
I won’t sleep with her again anytime soon. I want to do social things with girls and build up my circle of friends. I used to say that I don’t do my friends, and I wouldn’t, but I just wanted arms around me as did she, because for her, it had been a long, long time. She is a brand-new friend anyway, because I have known of her, but not known her really until last month. I hope that this intimate connection will be an impetus for her to meet a girl who is not a Mom to date.
The thing that is amazing is how open she is. My ex doesn’t take anything that I say at face value. It’s a competition or I am not being truthful. With this girl who is my friend it is polar opposite–as are her looks–which meant that I had to talk to her somewhat about the obvious reasons for our sex. I have no regrets. It made me feel vital and will help cure me of my ex’s spell.
I was captivated and understand your situation completed and it was intriguing . If there is any advice i could give you it would be that you are making the right choice of living your life to the fullest before inviting someone else in.
Yes, I have lived alone for 5-years, and won’t live with anyone until it is for sure. Tomorrow I’m going to go climb a mountain with my climbing partner. Thanks for reading.