There is this song by the BoDeans that talks about being completely vulnerable, and the song title is the namesake of this post. I figured that I would get some readership given the obsession with sex that American society has, but really to have excellent sex with someone you are also expressing some sort of vulnerability or connection with the other person. A friend of mine sent me a Ted link today, which a presentation by a Social Work Professor in TX, and she said that in order to actually connect to another person, you must embrace completely that you are worthwhile.
I am worthwhile, and I don’t feel ashamed that I gave my whole soul and told many personal things that I had not expressed previously during my most recent relationship. I took risks. I have grown. I have refined what I want and my psychologist (Who I pay) told me that I’m getting closer. I think that I’m there and when I meet her, I will just know, and we will connect and build what we want and can attain.